“Which do you think is more―better or best?” asks Yusef, my
guide on this three-day trip. This, as
we walk down a snow-splotched mountainside in the Mongolian Hustai National
Park with a herd of six wild Takhi horses behind us, the stallion watching our
every move.
A magnificent Takhi or Przewalski stallion. |
The snow is slippery and so is the dead grass under our wet sneakers. More importantly, what will that stallion do now that our backs are turned? Nothing, as it turns out, though I’m sure it thought the pesky tourists were gone for the winter.
Starting the climb up to the Takhi. The deer are in an area to the upper right of the photo, not visible in this photo. |
“Best, of course,” I respond.
“But, what if something is better than best?”
The Takhi stallion. Also known as Przewalski horses, these are the only true wild horses in the world today.. |
The mind of this young man amazes me. He’s been a tourist guide for three
years and speaks five languages fluently with an understanding of a sixth.
“There isn’t anything better than best,” I say as I turn to
keep an eye on that stallion. The wild
horse is ignoring me and the mares and foals have moved farther away. Higher up the slopes, the deer seem to have
settled down after our intrusion into their peaceful, warm, and sunny
afternoon.
Maximum zoom and crop. This herd of red deer high up on the mountain conservatively numbered a hundred. |
“But, better than best?”
“No, it’s good, better, best. With better, there’s room for improvement.
With best, that’s it, that’s the ultimate.”
He persists, but that particular conversation comes to an
end with two things: 1) Exaggerating the word, I say, “Unless you say awesome!”; and, 2) Yusef steps into a
snow-covered hole up to his knee, perhaps a marmot hole.
Ever cheerful, he sits in the wet snow and flashes me a “V”
with his fingers, the brilliant Mongolian sunlight behind him.
I love this guy. He’s
the kind of young man you’d like to have as a son.
We have many conversations during our three day trip, but
none so whimsically abstract as the above.
Many are about religion and human rights and politics and the moral
values in differing societies today. He
wanted to know if marijuana is legal where I live and what I think about gay
marriage.
We find we think alike on many things. We each have gay and lesbian and bi friends;
we each wish them well and are happy that they can live openly under a legal
contract with the person they love. He does
not, however, approve of promiscuous behavior.
Never domesticated, the Przewalski horse was extinct in the wild in 1950,. |
Using 12 animals alive in zoos, a successful breeding program boosted the population to 1500 by the 1990s. |
He seems acutely aware of, and as a Muslim, sensitive to what many Westerners think about Muslims in light of the terrorism so prevalent nowadays. We settle that the first hour of the first day by each of us declaring we are not terrorists and promising we are not going to kill each other. It is said only half in jest, but that's the end of that awkwardness. Yusef vouches for our driver Aagii.
He thinks the terrorists are not true Muslims, does not like
what they are doing, and that people should be allowed to believe as they want
without interference or condemnation from others.
His mother is Muslim; his father Shaman. The father decided that each of his children
should decide their own beliefs. His siblings are a mix of Buddhists, Muslims, Christians, and undecided.
Looking down the mountain at our vehicle through the zoom lens. We climbed much higher than this to get near the deer, which were above the Takhi. |
At the age of six, Yusef was sent to boarding school in
China for an education. He returned at
age 13, and admits the transition was difficult. Now, he hopes to go to college and study
economics. He has applied for a Mongolian
government scholarship and for admission to a university in
Australia.
“I heard the Australians don’t like Asians,” he says and I
think it is an indication of this man’s moral fiber that he would apply to a
university in a place where the people might not like him because of his
ethnicity. Personally, I think
diplomacy would suit him just fine, or at the least, a translator in the
diplomatic corps.
The Takhi were released into the wild, with Hustai hosting a successful number of them. |
He speaks Chinese, English, Mongolian, Kazach, and Uyghur
fluently. The latter three are similar,
he says. He has an understanding of some
Arabic. Plus, he has been a tour guide
for three years, dealing with all kinds of people from all over the world. He says he is not Mongol, but Tuvan. Now a part of Russian southern Siberia, Tuva
(or Tyvan) was once an independent republic, and once ruled by Mongolia. It is the geographical center of Asia.
Back to that mountainside with the wild Takhi grazing above
us and the deer resting in the warm afternoon sun…
The conversation becomes much more interesting and full of sly and silly euphemisms and analogies when the subject of marriage comes up. He wants a big family with lots of children and three or four wives.
“One wife is okay,” I tell him. “Two wives are trouble and three wives? You
better leave town.”
Ever watchful, the stallion stays between us and his mares. |
I tell him about the Tibetan nomad custom of brothers
sharing one wife, and the reasons for that practical arrangement in a harsh
land. That is not for Yusef and the
reasons―with those euphemisms and analogies I mentioned above―consume the rest
of the descent down the mountain and end when I step into a (marmot?) hole up
to my knee.
How fun that you bonded with your guide. An unexpected gift on your trip.
ReplyDeleteReading this post, I can hear Yusef questioning, ever questioning. He is a VERY bright, astute, entertaining young man ... a true pleasure to be with on a trip. Nice to think about him ...
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Sorry to be a week or two late and a lot of dollars short on a comment here. I am going down your Mongolia Posts and had missed this one. Great post. To think there were no wild Takhi horses in 1950 and only 12 in zoos and now there are about 1,500 of them. That is amazing. Cap and Patti ..
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